Today, something miraculous happened. A total crack decided to put people down because of such a number singed unto his forehead. Withdrawing is the wisest thing to do. Nobody needs people like that. Sour pusses, who needs them, really? But in reality, people who do these wretched things --they're the ones hurting inside the most.
Pity is not the word for how I felt towards the man. It's a want to embrace the man. I just want to tell him, "There's no need to hurt any longer. Come here."
Human sadness truly is brought out from loneliness, bitterness, and fear of not receiving what you want. It's not the wants that matter, it's the needs.
=)) How dirty of me to think that such people are sexy.
No, they are not. We, humans, may naturally enjoy challenges. We cling to relationships that we feel are in danger. We hangout with people who we think won't be our friend anymore the next day. That's good in your want to preserve a relationship but the other party may think that they can manipulate you. Don't give in. Don't give up either on the relationship so easily. Manipulation is having a remote control button, you may be in control now but what's the result when you lose the remote?
The disaster of the other party discovering the truth of your intentions. Of how you cannot handle a free relationship when both sides are equal. You think you can only handle it if you have the remote control in your hands. When you do have it, you certainly don't recognize the other party as a human with feelings, a human who is a good as you. You don't see that because all you can see is the pain of losing the person you like!
You don't need remote controls or pull some strings if you have a loving and caring relationship. Just be yourself. If you think your true self is not good enough, then improve yourself. It's a matter of choice and discipline.
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